Growing up, my kids referred to me as the
Grinch, egged on by my wife of course.
No doubt this arose from my muttering and swearing as I climbed too
high, leaned over too far and eventually strung those tiny, white lights over
our tree and around our front door.
Making fun of Dad was, and still is, great fun for all of them and I
play along pretending to be put upon. It
gets me into the holiday spirit somehow.
In western society, there is a common
bond that is best expressed and celebrated this time of year. Responding
to a blog post titled “How Non-Christians Deal with Christmas”, an
Indian-American immigrant named Safiq Ali Patel said, “I come from a mixed
Muslim, Christian and Jewish family. I celebrate Christmas because I like the
theme of love, peace, joy and goodwill to ALL men. God didn't come to earth
just for Christians...”
What is it that inspires a Muslim,
Christian, Jewish immigrant to embrace the spirit of love, peace, joy and
goodwill to ALL men?
The Christian values of tolerance and
love for our fellow man are powerfully attractive to Christians and
non-Christians alike. People of all faiths can embrace the annual
celebration of Christmas. People respond to the sense of charity, love and
forgiveness espoused by Jesus Christ because those values and the emotion we
attach to them are fundamental to us as human beings.
At this time of year, it is somehow
allowable to disregard the boundaries that usually prevent us from the human
connection we crave. We disregard our normal
routines. We bake cookies for our
co-workers. We buy gifts for those we
love even when we have no idea what they’d like. And, we gather with friends and family to eat
food not on our usual diet and drink more than we should. It’s a time when we act on our charitable
instincts and become, if only for a few weeks, our better selves.
As for me, the Grinch, I recently took one
of those silly Facebook quizzes, “What Christmas movie character are you?” The answer for me: Buddy, the Will Ferrell character in the
movie “Elf.”
I plan to own it. The Grinch is dead. Long live Buddy the Elf!